晚饭后听了一会儿Joel Osteen的演讲。我自然不是基督徒，但Joel Osteen的演讲我一直很喜欢。
今天说的是关于Recognizing what battles to fight.
很多时候you may try so hard to prove a point, try to win others’ approval, try to accomplish something at the moment, but that something is just not worth it in the big picture.
So many times we are trying to fight over something that just does not matter that much. Not every battle is worth fighting. Many challenges that come in our way may simply be distractions that lure us away from our destiny.
也有很多时候，我们往往无法控制自己想赢得每一点能显示自己的机会。But actually, these little things, even if you do win, they are not going to put you further down the road. 我们应该懂得何时对很多不主要的事一笑置之，因为如果我们只是为了赢得这些事而努力，那我们可能失去的是更多。比如相处的融洽，轻松的气氛，或朋友的感情。
More importantly, if we make the mistake of engaging in every battle that comes long, constantly defending ourselves, proving our points, straightening someone up, then we will not have the energy we need to fight the battles that do matter. We have to ask ourselves if the battle we are engaged in is worth fighting and if it will further you towards your destiny. Or we are just fighting to pay somebody back that offended us, or fighting to prove to someone that you are important. Those are just distraction. Most of the frustration that come our way are not worth fighting for.